Obstacles are what we see when we stop looking at our goals. I’m reminded of this when the reasons why get overwhelmed by the reasons why not. I’m reminded of this when all I see are the dangers, rather than the multitudes of opportunity. (more…)
For some people, working out is a way to stay fit. For others, it’s a way to have fun. For Title Nine customer Lisa Schneider, it’s a way of life. As a working mom, finding time to stay fit can be a challenge, but Lisa makes it seem effortless. Maybe that’s because she’s been doing it for as long as she can remember. A quick count reveals at least 11 sports that Lisa has avidly pursued at one point or another since childhood, and that number doesn’t even include the athletic activities—like skiing, hiking, and biking—that she does with her family on the weekends. So it’s no surprise that working out is a significant part of Lisa’s daily routine.
It’s a routine that typically starts at 6:15am with a quick shower before the kids wake up. As a mother of two young girls, JiJi (nine) and KaiMei (two), Lisa’s mornings revolve around getting the kids dressed, fed, and ready for the day—a task she happily shares with her partner Mary.
Breaking Barriers—On and Off the Field
After dropping off JiJi at school or KaiMei at daycare, it’s off to Cornell University. In the 90s, Lisa earned her Masters and PhD in Sociology from Cornell. Now she works in the university’s College of Engineering as Director of Engineering Learning Initiatives, managing programs that enhance the learning environment in the college.
An engineering school may seem like an unlikely place for a PhD in sociology to end up, but it’s not as far a leap as you might think. “My dissertation research was on looking at pathways to nontraditional careers for women,” Lisa says, “and looking at women who have played sports in particular. Does the confidence and experience gained by, in many cases, breaking gender barriers and expectations correlate with a greater likelihood of going into careers that are nontraditional for women?” In her current role, “there’s a lot of emphasis on attracting and retaining nontraditional students—in engineering that includes women. Nationally, women comprise less than 20 percent of all engineering students.”
So are female athletes more likely to follow nontraditional career paths? If they were all like Lisa, the answer would be a resounding yes. A talented and determined athlete, Lisa has been bending, if not breaking, gender barriers in sports since she was a young girl. She recalls being barred from playing organized youth football—her favorite sport at the tender age of nine—but often beating the boys on the playground at recess. Even Little League was off limits to girls back then, but Lisa never settled for being stranded in the stands. “I was someone who really pushed those barriers,” Lisa says. “I think that experience contributed to my commitment to breaking barriers in other areas of life—working to remove barriers for myself, women in general, and other minorities.” Today, Lisa runs programs that help women and other nontraditional students get a foothold in the male dominated world of engineering.
Taking the Work Out of Working Out
For Lisa, working out is as natural and necessary as breathing. It’s as fluid and adaptable as well. In her younger years, Lisa’s athletic career included scads of team sports, from starring on her high school basketball team to playing world-class Ultimate Frisbee in college and beyond. But these days team sports would cut into valuable family time, so team sports are out and lunchtime workouts are in. What those workouts entail depends largely on the weather. In the spring and summer, Lisa usually does a 30 to 40-minute trail run three or four times a week. Rainy days will find her in the gym, where she’ll spend about 30 minutes on the elliptical trainer followed by sit-ups and some work with free weights.
During the long upstate New York winters, Lisa spends more time in the gym and takes a yoga class once a week. In an impressive display of athletic flexibility, she also avails herself of a university perk—free skating time at the hockey team’s ice rink. A native Californian, Lisa has adapted her longtime love of rollerblading to suit her snowy surroundings in the northeast.
Getting Grounded—At Home and At the Dojo
Most nights Lisa gets home between 5:00pm and 6:00pm, draws a bath for the girls, and gets dinner started. The family sits down to eat around 7:00pm and then enjoys some family fun time until 8:30pm or so, when it’s time to get the girls in bed.
Lisa’s nightlife takes an interesting turn on Tuesdays when she practices the one sport she just couldn’t live without—karate. At 5 feet 5½ inches tall and 122 pounds, Lisa may not look like much to reckon with, but you’d do well not to mess with her. She started studying karate 12 years ago when she was a 28-year-old grad student. “It was a lifesaver when I was writing my dissertation and in the throes of that,” Lisa says. “I started training and I just loved it. Back then I went every night during the week.” Now a second-degree black belt, Lisa trains only on Tuesday nights when she takes an all ranks and ages karate class with her older daughter JiJi. It’s some special mother-daughter time when Lisa gets to share her passion with her girl.
After their class together, JiJi has dinner with a classmate while Lisa takes a black belt class. Earning her black belt ranks among Lisa’s proudest accomplishments. It took her about five years, which was fast for her karate school (or dojo). For Lisa, karate isn’t about competition. It’s about personal development. And it shows. It’s evident in the way she tackles the rigors of everyday life—with humility, grace, and quiet resolve. You go girl!
Did playing sports as a child or adolescent lead you to bend or break any gender barriers as an adult?
The fitness of our body fuels the confidence in our soul and the fire in our belly. We are fit to toss our children in the air or throw caution to the wind. We are fit to stand on the sidelines cheering and we are fit to lace up our cleats and be cheered on. We are fit for the board room because we know our way around the locker room. We are fit to run families and we are fit to run businesses. (more…)
The Morning Rush
5:00am—Alarm sounds. Hit the snooze button.
5:30am—Out of bed. Hit the shower.
6:15am—Kiss the kids goodbye. Hit the road.
7:30am—Arrive at client site. Hit the laptop to prepare for a full day of meetings.
So begins a typical day in the life of Title Nine customer Zaida Aronovsky, information systems consultant, wife, and mother of three girls. It’s a day that rarely ends before midnight. (more…)